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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I know how much everyone paid for their house. If I know you IRL, I know how much you paid for your house and how it's titled (like if a trust owns the house.) It's literally a 5 second public internet search. It doesn't require skills. [/quote]

I have t admit I've definitely done this with a few people, but definitely not everyone! I think it's weird to look it up for everyone. Most people I simply don't care one way or another -- I only look if I have a specific reason to be curious about it, and even then I have to be very curious. Not because it's hard, just because usually I forget and don't bother.

But even if you look up everyone, I view discussing it with anyone except my own spouse to be questionable. It's gossip, and idle gossip at that. It's also a golden rule issue -- I wouldn't care if someone else looked up my house purchase to see how much I paid, but if I knew that people from the PTA or the neighborhood or my mom's group were discussing how much I paid, it would make me uneasy. If people are talking, they are usually judging. I think it's weird to judge people based on something like how much their house cost. It also invites rampant speculation which I think is okay if it's just you and your spouse but becomes problematic when you involve other people.[/quote]

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