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[quote=Anonymous]NP and I haven't read all the responses but my immediate reaction is OF COURSE there is regret when considering financial downside. But the question I have to ask myself is whether my decision to be the one at home with my kids--particularly during their first five years--rather than outsource childcare is something that I feel was worth the investment, so to speak. And for me my answer is yes, it was worth it to me. AND yes, I still have some material envy related to those who made a different choice when I fall into the trap of comparing our standards of living. Mostly it's big house envy. Still wouldn't change it. But it doesn't mean I don't have to remind myself to have gratitude for the fact that I had those years that I wanted. And FWIW I'm sure those who made a different decision are satisfied with their choice as well. It's not a contest. But you just make the best choice for your family that you can and if you are in a position to make either choice, then continue to choose to appreciate that you were able to make the choice you wanted.[/quote]

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