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[quote=Anonymous]I do not understand the cognitive dissonance that leads a betrayed spouse to vilify one party in their betrayal while continuing to have sex with the other party. That makes no sense to me. If you believe the spouse can be forgiven then obviously the AP didn’t do you such a bad turn that you’re not literally having sex with the person who brought them into your life. Betrayed spouses who leave there cheaters and continue to hate both parties seem at least consistent to me. And if you say “but I love my husband/wife!” then you’re admitting the pre-existing relationship matters, and therefore the AP— with no existing relationship with you— is off the hook. Never cheated myself but have seen a few adulterous situations unfold in our social group. Much easier to keep the spouses who left the cheaters than deal with the hypocrisy of the ones who didn’t. [/quote]
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