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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It is perfectly ok to get a divorce. It is perfectly ok to ask him to get a neuropsych screening for ADHD/ depression/etc. It is ok to decide to stay married and just do it all yourself.

Really, you just have to decide what you want to do and how miserable you are willing to be. Women make all kinds of different choices in this scenario.[/quote]

Yes, exactly this. Give yourself permission to do what makes sense for you. 
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Op here. I know. I just really do not want to get divorced. I just want him to wake the F up. [/quote]

I don’t mean this to be snarky, but someone lazy doesn’t stop being lazy when you do things like give them a free pass for a year because of a new job. The reality is that it sounds like you were really accepting of his race to the bottom on the domestic front. The longer he does nothing the harder it is for him to start doing things. He thinks life is just dandy.

You really have to decide if you will divorce or become accepting (which may involve a lot more outsourcing). As I noted before, you can ask him to look into the medical stuff, but he will likely simply not do it.[/quote]

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