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[quote=Anonymous]Answers on DCUm seem to always assume that people don’t get along with their family member and that everyone is secretly judgmental and hateful. If this is someone you love and you think they are putting themselves in a bad situation why would you not kindly say something? I think you can say it in away that is not accusatory but just saying that you’re worried that they aren’t saving enough for rainy day because young people underestimate how hard it will rain. Open a conversation. I think I had zero idea when I bought a house how frickin’ expensive it will be — that eventually you will have to replace every g-d thing from the water heater in the basement up to the roof and probably all the windows in between, so you should basically plan for at least one major expense a year. [/quote]
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