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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Well someone who still complains about an ex after six years might have a thing for being a victim. Maybe the ex-talk is getting old and she was excited to get to be "victimized" by something fresher.

In any case, she sounds like bad news.[/quote]
Yes, the way she acted so hurt, it made me think I must have victimized her somehow. Or, at least, she felt I had hurt her deeply. On reflection, the words "high drama" kept popping in my brain. It's funny because she has no problem criticizing me or questioning my judgement. It doesn't hurt me, though, because I am secure with my choices. [/quote]

In my humble experience, those ultra-sensitive drama types who are always playing the victim also have zero problem "criticizing me or questioning my judgement". Seems to go hand in hand with the personality type. Meanwhile, my friends who are stable and low drama just would neither get insulted if I happen to say something inadvertently and also do not criticize or question me.[/quote]

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