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[quote=Anonymous]A sort of related situation: My friend’s husband was cheating on her. They had a few young kids. She suspected, but wasn’t sure. I then knew for sure, saw him with her, but I also knew my friend  wouldn’t leave him at that time, because she was insecure to the nth degree and emotionally fragile. When my friend was stronger - once she had started taking care of herself, could envision a life without him, I shared the proof I had. It still rocked her world to know for sure, but she could handle the info. But guess what? She didn’t leave him. She did, however, start cheating on HIM and plans to leave him when her kids are a bit older. You never know what someone will want to do, but you can put out a feeler and get a sense for how she might react. The key is to let her know you love her and support her no matter what, if they stay with them, work on the marriage, stay but hate them, leave them, decide to open the marriage, whatever. People process at their own pace. These things aren’t linear. They won’t know themselves until they start working through the shock, grief, anger, disgust, contempt, detachment, whatever it is they personally experience.  [/quote]

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