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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. As another PP pointed out, most of the details don't really matter and in the interest in maintaining anonymity, I'm not providing more details. 10:41, thank you for your reply because this is exactly what I need to continue reminding myself of. I definitely don't hear someone who is desperate for anything. Remorseful, sure. Committed to change? I'm not seeing it. Empathetic (towards me), nope.

To 14:35, no I absolutely do not want that. It has taken so much out of me that there's barely anything left. I feel like a shell.

They do not work together.[/quote]

Do not reconcile he hasn’t done the work at all or proven he’s capable  of  any change my husband has an affair
My requirements

No contact 
Open phone etc no passwords 
Therapy for him weekly for 2 year minimum 
Infidelity program - we did it with Idit Sheroni 
Real remorse 
family therapy 
Weekly check ins- how are we doing etc 
Real changes to the marriage/relationship

My marriage is better than ever but if he weren’t 100 percent plus committed to all of the above I’d have left

Please don’t accept anything less - 
Huge hugs [/quote]

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