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Reply to "Single mom IVF- Fair to future child?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not having a father has been very detrimental to me in my life. I would not do that to a child ever.[/quote] NP. I don't mean to be callous but odds are that your life detriment is not solely due to the fact you don't have a father. The definition of family and the familial /non familial makeup of those that love and support you to ensure a healthy vibrant childhood varies greatly from person to person whether by choice or circumstance. The existential questions OP poses about "fairness" and obligation to a child before bringing them in the world are valid and should be considered - but should be one of the factors, not the sole factor in deciding, imo. I wish more people, coupled / married / single / or not...would take more time and consideration altogether but really focus on whether you have the time, resources and emotional maturity and love bandwidth to raise a whole human being.[/quote]
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