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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, how old are you? [/quote]

This is OP. I’m in my late thirties.

They specifically ask for money for home upgrades and associated costs. Same for the shower.

I would have written a check for the couple in any case, in addition to sending a gift.  I am just turned off that the request is explicit.  Not everything needs to be said.

To top it off, it will be an alcohol-free wedding. [/quote]

Eh, I’m 50 and honestly it sounds practical and easy for anyone giving a gift.  Better than buying overpriced tchotchkes that they don’t really want or need. [/quote]

LOL. I'm 50 too and I don't see these things as a big deal anymore. I want to make sure I get what they want. I'm not the type to crowdsource gifts on DCUM. They are clear they want cash-done! I would find it a tad tacky to have alcohol free if they expect big gifts, but now that I see all the latest research about alcohol, I don't think it's a big deal. Just give less if free booze factors into your equation. Life is short and tough, so very tough at times. I have faced enough majot challenges that this sort of thing does not phase me. I'd open say, "ok they want cash? sure thing!" Then I'd get a card, write a check and be knock it off my todo list.[/quote]

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