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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wouldn’t divorce her if it was just fling for sex. I’d be annoyed that I wasn’t allowed to have a side-piece that whole time. Not fair.

If it was full blown affair/relationship that involved the “love” word, I would strongly consider a divorce.

Would I want to otherwise know? Nope, not really. Ignorance is bliss, take that sh#t to the grave and don’t heap that drama upon me and the kids. If you’re going to play with fire, the #1 rule is to not get caught and #2 rule is don’t publicly humiliate your spouse. Don’t involve friends, people in your social circle, parents from kids’ school, etc. [b]If you’re getting some strange, it better be from a legit stranger[/b]. [/quote]

Wow, ok with your wife banging complete randos??  Hope you don’t stick it in there anymore.  Gross[/quote]

Did I say I was OK with that? No.

But I don’t see much of a difference from my health point of view of my spouse (1.) banging a rando or (2.) banging a dad from my kid’s school. In that situation, I’d rather have (1.) since (2.) could really wreck my kids’ experience at their school, be traumatizing to be a subject of gossip, etc.

This is just common friggin sense to be in the least-worse situation.

Anyways, we have a nice lifestyle with a lot of income as a married couple. Giving all that up to punish my wife for cheating in a non-emotional/physical-only affair is probably not worth it, so long as she commits herself to repairing things. Kids, property, household wealth all complicate the situation. [/quote]

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