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OP here.  PP, I wasn't the poster you quoted (the "Uhhh" poster) but I do agree with her that I don't think sending a note would make sense in this situation - if anything, it would make sense for me to ask her in person.  But I prefer not to do this, for a couple of reasons.  For one, I don't want to make her uncomfortable or cause tension by asking her to produce a reason for excluding my family.  Secondly, I have thought about it a good amount and I really don't see anything that I could have said or done that would have offended her so deeply as to prompt her to openly exclude us in this way.  A note might be appropriate under other circumstances, but I don't think it would be good here.

I get your point, though, about chewing gristle instead of trying to save a friendship. That's why I am going to try to just put this behind me and continue being friendly with her when I see her (which is on a regular basis).  I really think this is a case of her just not really considering me as part of the group.  Maybe she just feels she needs to know me for longer.[/quote]

As long as you don't just let the friendship die and try to uphold your part of it, that's a good alternative.  Good luck.  I hope she responds better to you in the future.[/quote]

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