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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes! Thank you for bringing this up, op. Both siblings have been to therapy and both are estranged from my mom and me. Both have very high standards for others and lower standards for them. They expect forgiveness for things they do but are very harsh against ANY thing you do or say even if your intentions were meant for good. For example, sending a gift to their child because you love them but they tell you that you are " love bombing" My one sibling cut us off but my other sibling wants a fake relationship where she just tells us how wonderful life is but never wanting to discuss any problems to have a real relationship It is very frustrating but I have had to let go because there is nothing I can do.[/quote] Sounds very typical for someone who believes your mom (or you) is a narcissist and you are the “golden child.” There is an army of therapists and acolytes out there all pushing this same agenda of “boundaries” and having no insight into their own issues.[/quote] Funny thing is my mom loved us all but I was somewhat more 'difficult' and she had great relations with both and now I'm the only child who is accepting of her whole self..good bad and ugly as she is of me![/quote]
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