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[quote=Anonymous]I became a sahm after my second baby was born and I basically kept the help too.I am a sahm, my kids are lucky to have a highly educated mom with them all the time. But, I valued this time and made sure that things I do not like to do can be outsourced. Did it without an iota of guilt. Do you know why I do not have a shred of guilt for my comfy lifestyle? Because I take advice from my husband. I do not take advice from other women. My husband encourages me to have help, to throw money at unpleasant things because he wants me to use my talents towards raising our kids and making sure that they have an enriched life. Men are like that. They can keep their eyes on the prize and value having a team of employees to do the grunt work. Women in the other hand are martyrs.unless you are getting up at 4 am and cleaning the toilets with your own toothbrush, you are basically sbameful. Unlike men who admire someone who rides the gravy train, women will criticize it.[/quote]
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