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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I will likely be one of these people. 
I’m in therapy. My issue is I just don’t like anyone enough. The few that I did like, it didn’t work out situationally or they weren’t interested in anything serious at the time.

I talk to a therapist because I wondered if it was something about my sexuality. Am I ace? Demisexual? I don’t think so, because I have had sex that I really enjoyed, but I don’t enjoy sex for sex’s sake if I’m not 200% into someone. And I just have tons of hangups. The littlest thing will turn me completely off and make me never want to be intimate with a certain man again. It can be totally innocuous, like the sound of his voice or a phrase he uses or if he burps with food breath or something, or if he initiates sexual intimacy too early or too late, I just get immediately and irrevocably physically turned off. I want to not be so picky and I want to give different kinds of men a chance, but you can only date for so long before you realize that sex is just never going to happen because of this-or-that thing that makes you slam the brakes.

I suppose I could consider asexual men, but then I know I would never get sex even though I do actually want it, having had it and liked it, and I have never met an ace man that I was attracted to in any way.[/quote]

Do you accept faults in yourself or get down by them? I think most people find things annoying but kind of accept that they have annoying traits themselves and therefore the vulnerability each person shares is kind of attractive in its own way. Also as I've grown I've just noticed that men have fewer things they are good at but are really good at them and women are more well rounded with behavior regulation and skillsets. This is a generalization of course.[/quote]

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