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[quote=Anonymous]I will likely be one of these people. 
I’m in therapy. My issue is I just don’t like anyone enough. The few that I did like, it didn’t work out situationally or they weren’t interested in anything serious at the time.

I talk to a therapist because I wondered if it was something about my sexuality. Am I ace? Demisexual? I don’t think so, because I have had sex that I really enjoyed, but I don’t enjoy sex for sex’s sake if I’m not 200% into someone. And I just have tons of hangups. The littlest thing will turn me completely off and make me never want to be intimate with a certain man again. It can be totally innocuous, like the sound of his voice or a phrase he uses or if he burps with food breath or something, or if he initiates sexual intimacy too early or too late, I just get immediately and irrevocably physically turned off. I want to not be so picky and I want to give different kinds of men a chance, but you can only date for so long before you realize that sex is just never going to happen because of this-or-that thing that makes you slam the brakes.

I suppose I could consider asexual men, but then I know I would never get sex even though I do actually want it, having had it and liked it, and I have never met an ace man that I was attracted to in any way.[/quote]

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