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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thanks for all the quick replies. We’ll she see if she has the cajones to communicate this directly to my FIL rather than telling it to DH, but then caveating “but don’t tell FIL.”[/quote] I agree with everyone that OP should not expect the woman to handle FILs care, but at the same time, the woman should not expect FIL's son to be the one to communicate that she wants him at his own house. She needs to tell FIL herself rather than trying to pretend FIL's son is making the decision. OP, if I were your DH I would tell her to have a talk with FIL by X day, and if she doesn't she leaves your DH with no choice but to tell FIL "Margery and I talked and she's worried about taking care of you and insists that I help set you up at your house to recover. If you have questions about that, ask Margery. I asked her to talk to you and I don't know why she hasn't."[/quote]
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