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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are you the same op as the video dates thread[/quote]

Why would that matter? I do video dates sometimes, this guy said he wasn't comfortable with a video date. He was more attractive in real life than on photos. Btw I had a video date with someone  else just recently who really liked me. He immediately offered his actual phone number, job place, position, connect on LinkedIn. Name matched the number and location on google, he is an involved dad. I liked that openness, and although he's not as tall/hot,  he is more educated, has well established career and better mannered.

Men don't realize they also have a competition for female attention and we will drop out if they try to install privacy locks on everything about them online. We live in modern world: it's not like I expect everyone to twit or Facebook but something should come up about a person when you google IMHO.

This also comes from my experience in hospitality business; when you don't check an ID and someone's name doesn't match the phone number on google it ends up in 90% cases with credit card fraud.

I am not a stalker (god forbid never call men first, or text them first). But ultimate purpose of dating is to find a sexual and hopefully life partner, and I want that search to be transparent. [/quote]

I am a woman but entirely different from you. No issue with texting guys first at all and have zero need to do video calls or for them to have an online presence. If those are things that are important to you, then make that clear. Just put in your profile that you only date men who have an extensive online presence and who will do video calls with you before dating. The guy doesn't need to compete for your attention. He is just a guy looking for a compatible partner and that isn't you so move on.[/quote]

+1. And please include in your profile that you’re willing to call a man’s workplace after one date to verify his employment. They should know what they’re getting into when they contact you. [/quote]

+2. Don’t forget to include that they will need to verify ALL sources of income too[/quote]

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