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[quote=Anonymous]This year I think you're only options are to go as a family or send him and the kids for a couple of days. 
But right after the holidays you need to have a discussion. So you are on the same page for next year. I'm not sure what that will look like because it seems like he does want to travel to see his family, so maybe deciding instead of spending Thanksgiving with them. You'll spend the weekend before Christmas. Agree to a certain weekends and then him and his parents can pick which one works for them. For the alternative is they come to you on Christmas Eve or Christmas Day?. You need to be honest about what's important to you, but he needs to be honest about what's important to him and you need to come up with a compromise. That might be every 3 years going to see his parents on Christmas. One year with your family when you're at your house and when you're with the in-laws. But then stick to it. No last minute changes. Right now he's doing it because he gets exactly what he wants and it doesn't seem to be any more work for him. If this is what he really wanted, you should have said it all along instead of letting you plan a party. [/quote]

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