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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You have a husband problem. Helping with dishes and stripping the bed aren't big asks. Your problem is that your spouse is fine letting you do all kid wrangling. [/quote] This is your issue. Ask DH to strip the beds and help with dishes when the kids go to bed. You have added 5 people's worth of dishes and cups to your ILs sink for every single meal. Of course you and DH should help out. These are your kids. While it would be nice if the grandparents read to and played with the kids, some just are not into that for more than an hour here or there. They miss THIER SON and want to catch up and spend time with him. They are not your sitters (and they likely do not need you to entertain them, again they miss him). [/quote]
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