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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am so sick of people wallowing in self pity.  No one has a perfect parent, not even you are a perfect parent and your children will have complaints about you.

Adults do not live in the past.[/quote]

Do you not believe that trauma is a thing? That our early environments can impact us into adulthood? Because you would be wrong. [/quote]

DP. Living in the past doesn’t help with healing. Recognize what you’ve been through, name it, and then find a way to move forward. [/quote]

Well yeah. The problem with being traumatized is that it keeps you living in the past. It keeps impacting you until you are able to heal. But what do you think “recognizing what have have lived through” means? Just….never talking about it? Never complaining? No.  Confronting the past, processing it, etc is part of what is required to move past it. This is not a fast process. If you want to call it “wallowing in self-pity,” fine, but you could also just say nothing.

[b]And what is with these parents of adult children jumping in and lecturing people who complain about their childhoods? Unless you’re OP’s mom it’s bizarre to get so defensive. [/b][/quote]

Agree. Definitely seems like projection.[/quote]

Except it's not project, at least in my case. You trying to dismiss concerns about your behavior is what's concerning.[/quote]

PP, I typed 5 words. What is it you imagine I've done?[/quote]

Anybody else starting to suspect some of these traumatized adult children are trolls? [/quote]

No, but I believe the "pity party" Trauma llama" "stop living in the past" name calling posters are sh#t stirring low key narcissist who feel seen in some of the traumatized posters' stories. If you possess self awareness, you can change. Stop abusing your family members and keep your abuse off of this thread, please and thank you.[/quote]

All these remote diagnoses, with their self-serving outcomes, don't bode well for the mental health of these posters. [/quote]

Why does it make you feel good to insult others? [/quote]

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