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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] I'm in a very similar situation. Please OP if you feel comfortable enough to give me your email, I'd like to chat. [/quote]

Hi, this is OP.  I'm so sorry you're in a similar situation. How long have you been married?  Do you have kids?  I can give you my email if you like....  My DH is now telling me that he does not like the label of "abuser" and said that he might as well label me a "bitch."  He told me he behaves this way because I am "critical of him" and that no one talks to him in the "tone" that I talk to him...  Really, I am a sweet and nice person and if anything I say things directly, but not in a hostile "tone"... and I don't consider myself to be critical... If anything, he often reads into statemetns that I make that seem innocuious and thinks I am criticizing him in some sort of subtext that I'm not intending.... Does this make sense?  Argh it is really frustrating.....And continues.....[/quote]

NP, here.  Does he have a good relationship with his mother?  Sounds like her critical voice is going off in his head any time you speak to him directly.  [/quote]

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