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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]They've typically stayed with you, until recently. Also, is their visit to celebrate your H their idea or your idea? If you invited them, then you pay.[/quote]

OP here. I hear you, but I don't have any other friends who pay for their parents to travel and stay nearby. I think I am just frustrated because of the friends I've talked to about this, they said their parents would never dream of having them pay for them to stay, their parents always take care of it themselves, and it makes me feel resentful. I mean these aren't people living on a shoe string. Their last vacation was to the Ritz.[/quote]

Parents and family stays with you, unless you are living in a one bedroom apartment.  You can get frozen meals and you can have a fridge full of groceries and they can help you.  If you cannot handle it, then outsource chores etc, so that you have the bandwidth  to handle it.

They must have been awful people to raise someone as selfish, greedy and manner-less as you. Your DH has no opinion? Is he an orphan who does not know how families work or is he like you too? [/quote]

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