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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  Thank you everyone for the responses.  I'm feeling better about doing what works best for my family.  For some reason I did feel like I was being summoned to the Thursday dinner.  I do think that is just for the groom's family, but it could change or I could be wrong.  The wedding is in the bride's hometown whether my brother and bride do NOT live.  [b]There has been no word about a rehearsal dinner but I'm in the groom's family so don't expect to get all of the details about events until the actual save the date arrives in the mail.  
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Several have suggested thanking the bride's parents directly for the invitation to Thursday.  That is a great idea I hadn't thought of.  I'll do that.  I agree it is a very thoughtful gesture on their part.  It just lengthens the trip and takes more time away from work.

At this point I'm inclined just to go myself on Friday and leave Sunday.  DH's parents are not local so we'd either higher a stranger to watch them (not excited about that), or maybe one of my sibling's older kids (assuming they take their kids which they may not because they'll be flying).[/quote]

I am on your side and generally agree with you but wanted to point out that your parents would be the ones who would traditionally hosting the rehearsal dinner so hopefully you can just check in with them! [/quote]

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