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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote] a DH.

DW hasn’t had sex with me in a decade. We can’t divorce due to finances, health insurance, kids, etc - basically life.

I’d take up with my HS sweetheart in a NY minute if she’d have me.

Most guys I know are not going to feck up a good thing on the home front for no reason.

So my question to OP is - how is your marriage ? Do you treat each other with love and respect ?

There is a reason he cheated with his HS sweetheart - it was emotional and that tells me something is missing in his life and marriage.

If there is still love there you should work to fix that together.[/quote]

This is just bs.  The reason he cheated has NOTHING to do with her.  There may be marital issues, but cheating does not fix those.  He cheated because of his own character defects.  You don’t get to blame the victim here - you sound like a jerk.[/quote]

Yeah that's total BS. SOME people deal with sexless marriages by cheating out of all the available options, including opening the marriage or divorcing. MANY people who cheat are NOT in sexless marriages, but the inducement to sleep with someone new makes them rewrite the marital history and suddenly a perfectly normal sex life is lacking. All people who are married have options beyond pretending to be monogamous while sleeping around behind their spouse's back. They just don't WANT to be a grownup and deal with the consequences of dealing with their issues honestly.[/quote]

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