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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why are you all acting like them offering to pay is some big deal? They've been treated to free weeks at the beach for years. That's a significant cost, especially Fenwick. I don't think it's crazy of them to want to try something new, but yes of course they should be treating for once.[/quote]

The other option is the son and daughter-in-law going to the mountains and not inviting OP.  How do you not understand that going on multigeneration family vacations for decades is a big deal?[/quote]

I don't think it would be bad for son and DIL to go on their own mountain vacation without inviting OP, at all. It's their vacation time to spend as they please. I don't think they are obligated to vacation with anyone, or to do the same thing every year if they don't want to.

I just don't get all the comments like OMG wow amazing they're offering to pay..[b].well, yeah! They've been getting expense vacations from OP and her husband for years! [/b][/quote]

And yet, it is amazing because they could have chosen not to invite and not to pay.  Why can't op see it as an opportunity to do something different?  IF they don't want to go just say thanks for the offer, feel free to do your thing but, we prefer the beach?[/quote]

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