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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I'm sorry, I can understand how this is a bummer and I hope you understand your son and DIL's perspective and that they are not at all trying to hurt your feelings or say they don't like going to the beach, but that they would like some variety. Different folks are different like that. My sister's ILs are the same and like to go to the same place each year. My family didn't have traditions like that and liked to try new places so that's something that she really likes to do and would prefer not to always go to the same place, even though she greatly appreciates her time with her ILs in their preferred spot. She has told me how she looks forward to her kids growing up going there and enjoying it with their grandparents AND she wants to make sure it isn't the only vacation her family takes. And that's hard to balance with family leave. So try not to take it personally because clearly they want to be with you all, they are making great efforts to still have this be a family vacation.[/quote]
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