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Reply to "Ex/childrens father freaked out that I took plan B"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP - we’re a lot of women in our 40s and yes some of us are clutching our pearls reading your message. You are doing a great job. Good for you for seeking therapy, and trying your best to navigate a relationship with X DH. It took me years before I was able to put up a real boundary with my X DH. I would second not bringing anyone to your fathers wedding - even if he’s introduced as a friend with no kissing it’s a little too soon, and a lot of pressure to put on a new guy. [/quote] +1 I would wait 6-12 months before introducing anyone to your kids despite what your ex has done - this is coming from someone whose mom introduced her kids too early and those relationships didn’t last (I also knew these “friends” were not just friends even though I was young). I also suggest taking things slow with the new guy and not take him to the wedding but it’s fine to have sex with him. And ignore some of the judgmental comments. [/quote]
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