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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I say this with kindness and without judgment: You need to put out before your husband starts looking elsewhere. Find a babysitter to watch the kids and take an evening for yourselves each week. If you’re still uneasy with your body for whatever reason tell him that. Think of it as a time to perfect your bj skills. Men just operate differently than women it’s normal but you have to compromise. At this point it’s been a year with very little goodies I can understand his frustration. [/quote] She had a traumatic birth three months ago and is now taking care of twins. Having sex with him once per week is more than the vast majority of new mothers are "putting out". It is totally unreasonable for him to expect more than this, even if she easily birthed one baby. If there's no sex at the six month mark following one baby, then there's something to talk about. His concern should be his twin babies and the fact that his wife recently had a transfusion, ffs. [/quote]
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