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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We're both in our 40's, divorced, and have been together for 4 months and have been sleeping together. This weekend we're going on our first trip together and I'm nervous.

First, it's a lot of time together- 3.5 hour car ride each way and then together for at least 72 hours.

Second, he is going to see me with no makeup, no hair done, etc. I have never showered in front of him.

Are these normal things to be nervous about? Or do I sounds crazy?

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Hi OP~

Yes it’s normal to worry about these things. You sounds just a bit anxious vs worried however. You are doing something new together so there is anticipation about unknowns!

That’s a lot of time together - perhaps longer than you’ve spent together, uninterrupted? Do you like similar music? Can you bring that NYT column with turn along the questions to ask each other that makes you fall in love? Or tell
Life story from start to finish?

Also seeing you without makeup makes you feel vulnerable perhaps. I suspect this experience of being unmade up self will make you feel closer to him.

Ps lol at the awesome “first overnight trip stories”. I went on one with a man I was dating and didn’t know he uses a CPAP machine all night. Do you know what that is?? Ugh, I mean it was fine but it was unexpected… and WHY WHY WHY do hotels in warm
Places have those awful shutter doors (NOT REAL DOORS!!)? If you haven’t loudly and unfortunately farted behind one of those, consider yourself lucky.  [/quote]

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