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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]If I was withholding due to a medical issue (undergoing some kind of rigorous treatment, had surgery or something), my husband would understand. It would suck, but he would understand, and would not stray.[/quote]

Please don't attack me...but, what if it was like 3-5 years?  or chronic, with no hope of ever having sex again?[/quote]

I am that PP. Years, he could probably handle. No hope ever again? I would probably, as much as it would pain me, give him permission to seek sex outside of the marriage on the condition that he was discreet so that I/our friends and family would not have it in our face and he would not develop relationships. Just sex, nothing else. [/quote]

This sounds good in theory but it is far from foolproof.  What if a big part of love for a sensual person is being with someone who truly desires him?  How could you force the resulting emotions to stay neatly in a little box?  The best sex is always about the freedom to be completely yourself, the shared vulnerability that is the deepest possible exposure followed by complete acceptance in a partner.  It's such a feeling of intense relief, joy, rightness. Who could fail to be moved?[/quote]

Well, it is not like that for everyone. And if it is for you, there is a good case that you should work hard on compromising on the amount of sex - maybe you only get it 50% as often as you'd like. [/quote]

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