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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I posted about this before but a friend of ours proposed with a cheap ring on purpose so he could judge if his girlfriend (of 4 years!) was materialistic. He said she’d agree to marry him even with a cheap ring. It was also an ugly ring in a yellow gold setting and wasn’t a pear like she liked. She dumped him. She said her proposal wasn’t the time for him to be setting a trap for her. She was pissed that he’d take a romantic moment and turn it into some weird anti materialistic stance. He made over 150k (so did she). We all agreed with her and thought it was particularly nasty and cheap of him. She said she would have said yes to the proposal if there hadn’t been a ring. She didn’t care about how much he’d spent. [/quote] She dodged a bullet. [/quote]+1; He sounds like a jerk. He could have gone with a sentimental piece like his mother's ring. Or an inexpensive ring in a design she fancied. Or no rings like in Asia as it isn't a piece of metal that keeps you from cheating. Some men string along the honest kind women who don't manipulate them. Then marry the first golddigger they can find. Read the Johnny Depp thread.[/quote] Sounds like both of you are very materialistic. Buy your own ring.[/quote] I don’t think you read the PP. this has nothing to do with OP’s question or materialism. It’s the fact the BF used an engagement as an occasion to “test” his potential fiancé. It’s a petty and antagonistic move, not one done out of live.[/quote]
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