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[quote=Anonymous]NP, haven't read each of the responses, but for people poo-pooing the "negative" responses and noting that they aren't helpful, I actually disagree.  I think these perspectives are helpful in the sense that OP understands and is prepared that this year of time home with baby might not be as enjoyable as she anticipated, and that it's okay if that is her experience.  I was somewhat surprised that I did not enjoy the newborn stage, was excited to return to work, and found weekends a bit exhausting with a baby.  I love babies and children, I absolutely adore my own child, and I anticipated that I would enjoy this time and dread returning to work.  That was not my experience and I felt guilty that I did not have that experience.  When I talk to other moms who adore their children, but didn't enjoy the newborn stage and were happy to return to work, this helps normalize it.

OP, this time can be lonely, isolating, monotonous, and tiring.  Yes, it can also be wonderful, fun, special, etc., but just know the good and the bad.  I agree on getting some babysitting help occasionally and finding some friends to see while on leave!  Getting out of the house can feel really challenging, depending on you and your baby, but it gets easier with experience.  Also, make sure that your partner is still helpful and you discuss the division of labor, even though you will be home.  Having a baby can be hard on a relationship, and having one parent as the caretaker can be even more stressful.  Good luck![/quote]

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