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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't understand why people are so up in arms that someone allowed their child to invite just 5 people to her birthday party.  Just because this other girl had a party that same weekend doesn't mean the OP had to change their plans.  She had a 5 person party.  What's the big deal? Are people not allowed to have small parties anymore?  And if you opt for a small party, but someone else didn't, that means you can't go to that party?  That doesn't make sense to me.[/quote]

NP here.  How can you not get it?  As I'm going through this thread, I wanted to type +1, this, agree over and over again.  Here's the point:

No one (or maybe a small few) thinks it was bad for the dd to have a small party and only invite a few people.

No one said that dd had to change plans because other girl's party was same weekend.

EVERYONE agrees that because dd made it clear she didn't like the other girl's potty mouth and wouldn't invite her even after she got an invite from her  - that she shouldn't go to that girl's party.

How can you not see that?  If you clearly don't like someone - enough to purposely exclude them (even when you have room - since the OP said she could add this girl when they got an invite - so they had room specifically for this girl) and enough to tell them to their face "you're not invited because ..." then DON'T GO TO THEIR PARTY.  Why is that so hard to see?  It makes the dd out to be a selfish user.  "I don't like you, but I want to socialize with all your friends on your dime."  How can you not see that as rude?[/quote]

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