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Reply to "I have a real life “The Notebook” situation on my hands and I have no clue who to choose. "
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[quote=Anonymous]I'd vote for guy #3. Instead of "arguing" I think the Notebook had a lot of passion. His negative was that he was poor, not that he had issues or they fought too much. You aren't into guy #2 enough that when guy #1 comes knocking you don't immediately shut that door. I too couldn't be a stepmom. My close friend is a fantastic one, but I just am not that selfless. And her situation is easier because the mom basically has give up custody and they have stepdaughter 24/7, so they're not fighting over her care or money. I had a wonderful ex-fiance I was with for 7 years. He was 95% perfect but 5% of him was broken from a pretty traumatic, unloved childhood. And it would come out and he'd fight over things. But there was lots of passion. I just decided to my self that I didn't want to live that life and if I never found anyone else, it would be better than being married to him. Not one single person thought I was doing the right thing. I met dh a few months later and he's absolutely perfect. I haven't thought about my ex in decades. [/quote]
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