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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Because it’s 2022 and we’re done blaming women for the transgressions of men. What an affair partner does is not good, but they’re not the one breaking their vows, taking away their spouses informed consent, and harming their children. [/quote]

The H (or W) and the AP are BOTH betrayers and both are betraying the married spouse and kids.  Riding shotgun counts.[/quote]

Sorry no. The AP has no loyalty to the spouse who most likely they have never met. The wronged spouse was betrayed by one person, their spouse.

This thread is so funny. So many people trying redirect fault. Whatever helps you get through the day. [/quote]

Loyalty?  Who the hell thinks of it that way?  "The AP has no integrity or empathy".  Fixed it for you.  Anyone in an affair, married or not does not have good character.  They know what they are doing is wrong and will harm someone.  And, let's be real, [b]all of these people are wishing for the spouse to get out of the picture, even if it is via death, illness or divorce so they can have that loser cheater all to themselves.  Hardly the thoughts of a kind soul[/b].[/quote]

BINGO!!  Some even leave direct clues so the spouse will find out.[/quote]

It helps the OW/OM to only think of the AP's spouse/children in the abstract.  They aren't 'real people' to them.   It allows them to act in ways unbefitting of anyone that is a decent, empathetic person.  People in affairs (both parties) have a lot of means to compartmentalize and justify things that they know are wrong or not morally acceptable as you can see with the way they have responded on this thread.

People have stated facts: if you knowingly enter into an adulterous affair (either party) you lack character and integrity.  That's a fact.   IF you don't want people to know that you routinely 'date' married people, you obviously know what you are doing is wrong even if you have said no vows.  And, what does it matter if you are 10% wrong or 50% wrong, etc., you are still wrong.  If it makes you feel better to only be 10% party to someone's pain to continue your nefarious ways, carry on.[/quote]

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