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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Because it’s 2022 and we’re done blaming women for the transgressions of men. What an affair partner does is not good, but they’re not the one breaking their vows, taking away their spouses informed consent, and harming their children. [/quote]

They have no vows.  If the man is chearing, it's on him.  Not the woman.  JFC, it's not the 1800s, stop placing the blame on women.[/quote]

How about we say man gets 70% of the blame and the woman gets 30%? 
I’m intentionally being ridiculous. The point is that “blame” is not all or nothing. [/quote]

I agree with you, but the hysterics on this thread focus not on the person with a closer responsibility to his wife and children, but to someone else.

Another way to view it is imagine a situation where the wife needs a kidney transplant. The husband and a female friend of his are both perfect matches for her. If the husband refuses to save his wife’s life, that is a much bigger dick move than if a female friend refuses to save his wife’s life, even though of course it would be good of her to help his wife, he has the obligation, she does not.[/quote]

And the judges award her: 10.0!!! Outstanding performance in mental gymnastics.

There are no hysterics. There are just a bunch of people stating that 'good' people don't have affairs with married people. This obviously upsets you.[/quote]

NP. Nobody is saying APs are moral or right. They’re not betraying anyone, except maybe their own self-respect. They’re not hurting anyone that they have made vows to. They are not damaging their own children whom they have an obligation to protect. It’s not right. But it is not the same level of wrong that is being unfaithful to your spouse and family. [/quote]

Keep on performing those mental gymnastics.  There isn't a sliding scale.   Oh wow---they aren't doing something to damage their own kids or spouse---just someone else's.  Phew--that's a relief.

You really are sick in the head.

Here's something, do better.  How about trying not to lack character or do harm at any level?[/quote]

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