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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So what is your husband’s role in this? What does he think? He would have dealt with this by now if he didn’t like it, right? Personally, I would allow DH to deal with this and don’t go out of your way to host when he comes over. And also, when someone invites themselves over, you can say no. [/quote] We have discussed this multiple times. Dh said he isn’t going to say no his brother if he wants to come over. Since I am the one preparing the meals, I have to feed them. I don’t mind BIL that much. I am used to it. I just don’t want to host these random girls.[/quote] Well, you don't have to prepare the meal. Load up the kids and take them to eat elsewhere. Or make some chicken nuggets, baby carrots, and call it good. DH can say yes to his brother all he wants, but you don't have to say yes to doing everything your DH would like you to do. Seriously you need to hand this burden right back to DH and let him deal.[/quote]
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