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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would suggest for the DHs in sexless marriages to start hitting the gym regularly and putting more thought into grooming and appearance. I'm a single mom now, but in your DWs shoes, I would definitely take notice if you suddenly lost the belly fat and were spending more time on your clothing. And didnt bother to ask me for sex for awhile, yet seemed happy nonetheless.

For the poster with the wife in remission, I'm sure the perception of her femininity took a beating during the process. If she can only have sex with the lights off, she might fear that you were see the flaws she's been hiding and be turned off. Also, knowing that you are thinking about sex most nights puts alot of pressure on her. I would also suggest planning activities for just you and the kids where she can have some more "me" time. If she's a SAHM especially.[/quote]

I have tried many things.  I have gotten back in shape several times.  The most recent time, I was in the best shape since my 20s.  Not just thinner but in really good shape.  Didn't change anything.

In the last ten years, I have been the morning parent and bedtime routine parent 90% of the time. she gets lots of opportunity for sleep time.  On the weekends, I usually give her lots of me times.  She is a SAHM and the kids are in school every week day.

We are roommates and parents... She has emotionally built a wall around herself when it comes to me.  It is extremely rare if she even kisses or hugs me.  Forget about anything closer.

It might seem strange, but I actually still love her.  Something is broken and I think I know what it is but it is nothing that I can do.  She needs to figure it out and work with someone to get over it.  She is a very private person and I don't think she would ever let anyone get close enough to help her work it out.[/quote]

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