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[quote=Anonymous]Occasional bizarre controlling behavior. For example, the first time I saw it: it had snowed about 5", and I didn't own any snow boots. I had some flats and some Converse, and a pair of New Balance (or something) sneakers. I figured the sneakers would have the best traction and be warmest. Everywhere was shoveled anyway.

When I came over from work, he was incredulous that I wasn't wearing boots. I kind of laughed it off (because why would he really care?) He said what if my car broke down and I had to walk? In that extremely unlikely scenario, I would... just walk, and maybe my feet would get cold and wet. Big deal. I wasn't heading out into the wilderness. He railed on and on and wouldn't stop. He was right, I was wrong. It was

He apologized the next day. I brushed it off as though maybe there was something I just wasn't understanding about the point he was trying to make.

But over the years, we've had several similar arguments where he vehemently opposes some insignificant thing I do, and he pushes and badgers me irrationally and I really feel like he's going crazy.

I always remember that snow boot argument, and wonder how I so easily brushed it off at the time. [/quote]

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