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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Grateful if someone has an answer to the following. Suppose I’m divorced with 50% custody of children. Does that mean I’m forever tied to the location job-wise where my husband is also located? That is, I can’t accept overseas job offers as that would effectively prevent his 50% custody? [/quote] You can take a job overseas becuase you would be giving up your 50% custody. Why would HE lose his custody if YOU leave? [/quote] Because he doesn’t want to change his life to be a fulltime or parting parent; he is too codependent on OP for taking care of the children. It’s be sad to give full custody to a dad like this. 3 mos later he’d quit or marry a mail-in nanny from another country or beg grandma to do everything. Or conveniently get the kids to the other parent. If he was high income he might last 6 mos if throwing money at sitters, nannies, tutors, drivers yet never talk to any of them nor his children. Neglect.[/quote]
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