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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, in general, you're living a life too close to the edge

[b]Calm the family schedule down, [/b]down to a speed you could handle if it were just you.[/quote]

This. And drop the ball. Get food for only you and the kids, he can do whatever, at least a few times a week. Do the bare minimum for you and the kids to be dressed and ready and not have mice in the house. Only wash your clothes and the kids clothes, dh has to do his.

[b]It sounds like you have higher standards OP, I would lower them [/b]and not do anything for him. [/quote]

You people are idiots.

No offense, but if OP has an SN child “dropping the ball” doesn’t look like the chicken nuggets for dinner instead of the home cooked meal you’re imagining. It looks like a speech therapist who’s not effective and communicating gets harder than it already is. It looks like worsening behavior and an increasing disconnect from the world. It looks like a service that’s supposed to be covered being denied and you getting a surprise bill for $3,000. There is no real choice except to do the work and spend time with insurance. It’s not having “high standards” it’s that the standards to simply survive with a SN kid take a ton of work. There is now to “calm it down” without paying huge emotional, financial and developmental consequences. [/quote]

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