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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do the 180. But do it right. No stomping and being mad. Disengage. And maybe you should have left the oldest child. He needs to feel it. Your child would have lived. As a matter of fact, leave tomorrow after the sitter and go out. No planning anything for them or him. I’m off to go shopping and walk out the door. [/quote] This. I don't know about the leaving the child, but if dh isn't going to do anything, why not have him look for higher paying jobs and just have him work all the time? Drop the rope on any stuff for dh. You don't wash his clothes, he has to do that. You don't make dinner every night, maybe get it when out with the kids, but have food he can fix himself if he needs to. You assume you have to do all the work to keep yourself and the kids going or schedule all the work the keep it going. The only thing your dh supplies is income. Having him back off at work to do more at home hasn't worked. [/quote]
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