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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m a married woman, so no advice from me.  I just wanted to chime in and say that 50/50 custody with another involved parent sounds amazing.  I love my kids, but I could definitely use some regular breaks.  
Oh, and you can arrange your schedule however it works for you.  No checking in with anyone else.  And you can spend your money, keep your home, plan your schedule, and travel wherever you want to go without taking your spouse’s opinion into account.

I’m happily married, but there are some serious upsides to divorce that you are missing.

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Also a married woman, though right now marriage is struggling (actually reading this thread in part as an exercise in figuring out how bad things are — don’t think we are close to divorce right now).

But agreed, and wanted to add: the freedom of never having to waste another vacation day or holiday on my in-laws sounds like a huge gift. I know some people like their in-laws, but mine are awful. My husband doesn’t even like them. The idea of never having to trudge the seven hours drive to their house to deal with their constant, depressing, bullshit sounds like magic.

Though knowing my kids would have to go with their dad would make me sad. I wish our whole family could be free of them.[/quote]

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