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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thanks for some of the recommendations here. I lift 4-5 times a week and don't sport a beer belly.

Wife has been discontent and we've been in therapy for a while. I admit and have admitted to her that I have been lazy and selfish. I am however a very involved dad. The laziness was more towards our relationship. Over the course of therapy, I had changed my behavior and was working hard to be a partner and not a roommate.

Thanks for some of the guidance. As one poster said, get a lawyer and cry later. That's what I'm in the process of doing right now. [/quote]

Why did you let it get to that point?  Nobody gets married thinking "I'm going to be a lazy and selfish roommate", right?

You may benefit from reading Must Be This Tall To Ride.[/quote]

I was spending more time at work and then when home, with the kids. Our relationship suffered. By the time the kids were in bed, I was too tired to engage, as was she. That was one of the reasons for her f[b]irst emotional affair.[/b] [/quote]

First emotional affair? So there was more than 1? And now it sounds like she's taken this thing physically.  You may have had your issues OP, but trust and believe you will be in a much better place when  you divorce. Out of the fog, you;ll be follow the advice in the long post from the  divorced dad and you will be all right.[/quote]

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