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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Knowing your worth, and being open to love is a big thing. Also, sometimes part of it is just luck. There are really awesome people who continually get the short end of the stick. I learned at an early age that life isn’t fair a lot of the time and there is no rhyme or reason to it.[/quote]

So much is about finding someone that didn't have a f____ked up childhood.  A person's childhood is such a major red flag that so many miss and don't see how it will play out in middle age, the leftover, unaddressed issues and learned coping mechanisms.

I will heavily council my kids to look at their future partner's parents/family relationships very carefully.

I also think she had a lot of tragedy early in life (her mom dying young) and now karma is coming back to her in a good way.  She seems like a genuinely good, warm-hearted, emotionally-sound person.[/quote]

Did you even read the blog.  From what I gathered her mother had a mental illness and took her own life whilst Marjorie Brimley was a youngster.  This is a really f...ked up childhood. Yet she went on to find love and was quite happy.

So you can heavily counsel your kids to look at parents/family however in this case her childhood was not a red flag.  Even you describe her as emotionally sound.  She managed to move beyond that.  I would say counsel your kids to find someone emotionally mature.  How do they handle arguments, do they fight fair, can they talk about issues or do they use manipulative techniques such as the silent treatment, do they treat them with respect, do they have boundary issues with their parents.  If your own child has enough self esteem they won't be with someone who treats them less than.

Also this isn't how karma works.[/quote]

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