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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Im stunned by the people having this much sex and 1-3 hour sessions at least once a week!  We have one young kid and have sex like once every two months, if I initiate. Its not very good, always the same every time. And I am the DW.[/quote]

I was in your situation. Life gets better - as does the sex - as the kids get older and you regain some time for yourself.[/quote]

I was also in your situation and it didn't get better. Not saying it won't for you but you need to talk with your DH and find a solution if you want one. There is a reason why 20% of married couples in their 40s are sexless.[/quote]

+1. Actually, I’ve seen the number 30-40% cited in various places.[/quote]

By age 50 it's almost half of couples are sexless, meaning 10x a year or less.

It takes a lot of effort and commitment to keep the sexual spark alive. And both partners want to have a good sex life.  Monogamy is a beast.[/quote]

Men have lots of issues performing at 50.[/quote]

Makes sense -[b] 38% of men are obese, 74% are overweight,[/b] so add that to the age factor. Obesity is a significant factor in ED, so almost half of men can have performance issues. Add slightly overweight men with diabetes, high blood pressure, high cholesterol and/or depression and I'm amazed that anyone can have sex.

https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/conditions-and-diseases/erectile-dysfunction

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/24720114/[/quote]

Where do your above numbers come from?  According to the CDC, approximately 47% of men aged 40 - 59 are obese.  For women in the same age cohort, the obesity rate is 43%.

https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/products/databriefs/db360.htm[/quote]

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