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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can understand where he's coming from.  I assume he makes the majority of income for your family?  Is his job stressful?  Is he able to "stay home" if he's sick?  I'm guessing not.

I have a very stressful job.  However, I make 400k a year.  I can't take days off.  I work seven days a week.  There are no "holidays" for me.

When someone in my family is sick I sleep in the basement in a guest bedroom.  I don't mind at all.  Sometimes if my wife feels sick she will sleep in the upstairs guest room. She knows I can't deal with being sick, I have real responsibilities and work.[/quote]

You know you don’t HAVE to have this life, right?[/quote]

In my heart of hearts I know I should leave. I know this.
I am being open and honest here. I don't have the guts to do it.
The thought of such a change terrifies and paralyzes me. 
The thought of splitting custody possibly dealing with a step parent- all of it.
I am being raw and vulnerable in telling you that i KNOW i deserve better, and I should leave. But I am too afraid.[/quote]

Ignore these other PPs on their high horse OP.

We all have different circumstances and personalities. You are doing the best you can right now.

The one thing to watch for is if your kids are being affected/being treated badly by your DH.  If that is the case, I would work with your therapist and/or a trusted close friend to take steps to be ready to leave if you ever decide it is time. [/quote]

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