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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We are both 33. Agreement before marriage was at least one child and planned to start trying at 30. I’m a CRNA with an option (and expressed willingness) to take on reduced hours. Her parents are in the area and would be over the moon to help. I’ve always been attracted to how career oriented she is but now it’s just plain frustrating. I’m on the hook because she’s not saying she doesn’t want children, just not now. We both know we don’t have much more time. Last time I brought it up, it ended in a huge argument and she ended up sleeping in one of the guest rooms for a few days. Her solution was freezing her eggs and revisiting this topic again later. That’s not a solution to me. That’s prolonging the current cycle that I’ve been in for 2 years. We honestly don’t argue much at all but this topic shuts her down completely. [/quote]

It seems like there is an underlying issue that she has causing her to want to delay. Maybe stress? The way you are framing this could be part of the issue. Sounds like she is overwhelmed right now, and it might be helpful to see if there is a way to relieve some of this.[/quote]

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