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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Firstly I'm not young or naive. I certainly will not be asking my daughter to get him to buy her things. I original question was should he be sharing childcare costs or not? His excuse right now is no because he pays the mortgage to his condo. I bought all her things clothes, cribs, diapers and I paid for childcare. All I asked was does he also need to share the cost or is paying a mortgage a get of jail card because that hasn't stopped him paying for the other kid.
[b]And also not sure which marriage ruling mandates a joint account [/b]
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OP, you’re the one starting a thread because the way you split finances is upsetting to you. If it was so easy to have everything be separate, most people wouldn’t have joint finances. You need a joint budget at a minimum.

If he’s going to count paying the mortgage on the condo as a contribution to the marital budget, then he needs to put your name on the deed.

He’s straight up taking advantage of you and you’re here on your high horse saying that joint accounts aren’t mandated for marriage. Okay, you do you! I would never live like that, but more power to you if you want to use up all your salary on joint expenses while he maxes out his retirement and plans big extravagant shopping sprees for his older daughter! Enjoy! Know that you bought that. [/quote]

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